Wedding Invitation Kits are a great way to save time and money and enable the happy couple to create their own unique theme based invitation with their personal stamp on it. But trying to choose the right wording or text for an invitation is often the trickiest part, especially when certain circumstances create those "sticky" situations.
So what are some of the ways to get around this "stickiness" and what wording should be included on a wedding invitation? Below are some easy tips to create the perfect invitation for any situation.
1. Adults Only Wedding and Reception. Ugh. This one is always a no win situation right? Not necessarily. If approached correctly, it could not only end up being a win-win, but might actually leave no "hard feelings" in its wake. One tried and true method for communication is not necessarily the invitation, but rather word of mouth. Gently (or as tactfully as possible) mention that your affair is going to be a more formal and fancy "cocktail" themed affair. If you are not comfortable that this message will resonate with Aunt Kathy and Uncle Bob (who have 5 children between them) then send a small, personalized note along with the invitation explaining the reasons for this decision. You could say it is for financial or budgetary reasons, the type of affair, etc.
Or, if you have a more direct type personality, simply word the invitation directly with something like "the reception and wedding are adult only affairs". This is pretty black and white and to the point. Doesn't leave a lot of wiggle room for misinterpretation.
2. Required Text. What should all be included on the wedding invitation? Well, the right and wrong protocols are a little muddy due to the constantly changing landscape of today's family. With divorced, remarried, single and widowed parents, a more free form method of choosing the wording comes into play. Most invitations today allow for informal or personal touches which is a great way to express yourself as a couple and wedding invitation kits are the perfect option for allowing you to be as formal or as casual as you like when creating your wedding invitation text.
But some things absolutely need to be on the invitation the most important being the wedding date including:
a) When (date and time);
b) Where (ceremony and reception location) along with a map card. If you have a wedding website, do a dry run a few days before the wedding to check for detours, roadblocks, construction or any other possible bumps that would interfere with the timing of your affair. Then simply post an update on your site so your guests can quickly check in and keep informed of any last minute problems.
3. Formal Invitations. There are certain rules of etiquette which should be followed when wording a formal invitation. Write out the full names along with the middle names (if they have one). Do not use middle initials. It is better to leave off the middle name entirely rather than use an initial. If you want to keep it very formal, then use the "Queens English" when spelling out words such as "honour" and "favour". Also, be sure to spell out everything including times, dates, addresses, hours, etc. Use Roman Numerals for names such as Robert Johnson, II.
4. Religious vs. Non Religious or Casual Ceremonies. For a religious ceremony, it is always good etiquette to say "request the honour (honor) of your presence". For a non-religious or more casual ceremony you could simply say "request the pleasure of your company".
Regardless of which wedding invitation kits and text you choose, the important thing to remember is have fun and keep it stress free. Everything falls into place in the end so be sure to take it all in and enjoy every moment.
Anne Reese is a Consultant passionate about helping couples reduce stress and help take the guesswork out of do it yourself wedding invitation kits by providing some basic information on cost, choices and where the best places are to find that one of a kind invitation for the happy couple's special day. For more information on where to find the best kits, diy invitations, designs, wording and etiquette, visit http://www.weddinginvitation-kits.com.
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